Most people feel bad about themselves from time
to time. Temporary feelings of low self-esteem
may be triggered by being treated poorly by
someone else recently or in the past, or by a
person's own judgments of him or herself. Low
self-esteem is a constant companion for too many
people, especially those who experience
depression. If you go through life feeling bad
about yourself needlessly, low self-esteem keeps
you from enjoying life, doing the things you
want to do, and working toward personal goals.
To improve your self-image, try making lists, rereading them often, and rewriting them from time to time. The process will help you to feel better about yourself. If you have a journal, you can write your lists there. If you don't, any piece of paper will do.
Make a list of:
- At least 5 of your strengths, for example, persistence, courage, friendliness, creativity
- At least 5 things you admire about yourself, for example, the way you have raised your children, your good relationship with someone in your family, or your spirituality
- The 5 greatest achievements in your life so far, like recovering from a serious illness, graduating from high school, or learning to use a computer
- At least 20 other accomplishments — they can be as simple as learning to tie your shoes, to getting an advanced college degree
- 10 ways you can "treat" or reward yourself that don't include food and that don't cost anything, such as walking in woods, window-shopping, or chatting with a friend
- 10 things you can do to make yourself laugh
- 10 things you could do to help someone else
- Things that you do that make you feel good about yourself